Miso
Misopedia doesn't happen overnight! It begins with disliking children and then that harmless "dislike" rises and mold itself into hatred. Prolonged unresolved anger, sadness, and discomfort; mixed together; produces hatred. Before hate can progress; the negative plant seed must absorb nourishment because without energy, it won't be able to live. Usually between adolescent age; misopedia strikes and dilate as the person matures but numbers of incidents encountered by ordinary people like you & me; authorizes the possibility of catching it out of the blue while you are an adult. An old friend of mine once knew someone who loved kids until they were 40. A group of minors goofing around; pushed a woman down a long flight of stairs inside of a building. She broke her arm and neck! Now she's paralyzed and every time she sees a child; she feels scared and angry. The soft sweet loving vibe and those happy thoughts she had about kids before she got hurt, transformed and switched to the opposite. Being mistreated is the only way misopedia can form! There's no other trigger except for that. When you were little, were you bullied? Bullying has two strategies... MODERATE AND EXTREME! The moderate way of bullying is laughing, pointing fingers, name calling, and creating ugly rumors. This happens in schools everyday. What else is new? Illustrations of the extreme would be hitting but not a small mild push or atomic wedgies or stuffed in lockers, or throwing paper balls, and play fighting to show the strongest compared to the weakest... This kind of hitting isn't what I was implying! I mean, hard punches and kicks that can break a bone and leave sores. Or choked and injured with weapons and objects. Bullying is not just bullying! It is different kinds. Extreme bullying is the birth worm of misopedia!
Everybody handles (abuse/bullying) differently! Some people brush it off and keep moving forward and some may take it strongly.
Is it helpful and mandatory to bring it a miso person's attention that they were a kid themselves??? No they do not need a reminder. Dementia, memory loss, and misopedia are three independent disorders and isn't connected to one another, but we're elaborating on misopedia! Let's stick to the subject of the article! No off topic conversations... Of course they remember that they were a kid once in their lifetime! Who could forget their early life? This is something they already understand but they simply care less. Take a rest and give your mouth a break!!!! You've stated the obvious too many times. It's not solving or proving much!
Another false allegation concerning misos is that they hate themselves. People respond to their condition by saying, "A long time ago; you were a kid too! If you hate children; that means you hate yourself!" It is untrue and illogical. You can have high self esteem and struggle with misopedia. Your perspective of yourself and your perspective of the youth will never be alike! You are not the thing you hate. Your hatred is for the stuff that bothers you and the humans who've done something bad to you or made you feel awful. It's not for yourself personally. A Chinese guy could hate other Chinese people and prefer to date outside his race but it doesn't mean he is ashamed of his nationality. The answer is obvious; to the question why can't he stand interacting with other Asians!? He had bad experiences with his own kind or it could be another similar reason. You don't need me to tell you! Use your brain to figure out the puzzle!!!
